The Dire Truth about Conventional Orgasms

While most men can go from “slightly-interested” to “fullejaculation”

and orgasm in an average of 3 to 4 minutes, orgasms

for women are often more elusive. On average, a women requires

15 minutes (or longer) of combined foreplay and stimulation

before orgasm is achieved. The reward: a clitoral or vaginal

orgasm lasting an average duration of 8 to 19 seconds.

In the early 1970’s, a detailed nationwide study showed that

nearly 12% of women never experienced any type of orgasm! The

same study showed that 16% could have an orgasm during intercourse

(with the addition of clitoral stimulation) and 19%

achieved a rare orgasm through intercourse alone. 

Only 26% had

an orgasm on a regular basis (30% when including those who

claimed to have vague “good feelings” in the vagina).

Couple this with the brief 8 to 19 second duration of an average

orgasm and you have a very dire picture.

Another segment of the study showed controversy over

“clitoral” orgasms vs.”vaginal” orgasms. The consensus showed

that clitoral orgasms (empty vagina) were largely considered

“higher intensity” than orgasms with vaginal penetration—but

there was a catch-22 factor. During clitoral stimulation and

orgasm, most women felt a strong desire to have an object in the

vagina. The problem with this “vaginal craving” was an immediate

decrease in pleasure if vaginal penetration was made.

Additional parts of the study concluded orgasm intensities

could range from questionable (“was that an orgasm I felt?”) to

pure ecstasy—but the high-intensity orgasms occurred much less

frequently. The study also showed that most women have intercourse

for the purpose of sharing emotional intimacy, while another

group’s primary motivation was to obtain the ever-illusive orgasm. One study showed that about 1/3 of the women studied

enjoyed anal penetration while another 1/3 didn’t like anal penetration.

Another study showed that 21% of women desired daily

sex, while 18% —nearly the same amount—were satisfied with

sex 3 times per week. Other studies probed masturbation with fingers

versus objects, sex with the legs together versus spread, and

the preference of different positions during sex.

The relevance of this information is to elucidate the obvious:

we are all different and have different tastes and desires in a partner

and how we interact with that partner. We have different

needs, likes and dislikes. Secondly, it brings to light the sad reality

that many women never orgasm, and those who do aren’t always

satisfied afterwards.

But now there is hope.

Duration in the length of orgasm is one area where the G-Spot

leaps ahead.

Unlike the normal vaginal or clitoral orgasm, the G-Spot

orgasm lasts not a mere 8 to 19 seconds, but often lasts 45 seconds

— with common reports of 2 minute orgasms and rare

reports of orgasms lasting between 20 and 40 minutes! One man

reported:

“She kept orgasming as long as I was rubbing the spot. It

never quit or slowed down. We have a clock radio on our night

table and it went on for at least 45 minutes. I know that sounds

like an exaggeration, but it’s not. I was beginning to think it

might harm her in some way if I kept going. And I was ready to

explode any minute. Watching her thrash around in ecstasy and

feeling how warm and wet her [vagina] was against my fingers

was driving me crazy. Her [vagina] kept contracting and squeezing

and she felt as tight as a schoolgirl again. It was driving me

crazy. I love this G-Spot thing.”

A few women have reported needing to stop their partners

from continuing stimulation because the pleasure was “excruciating”

or “nearly unbearable.” One woman stated:

“The anxiety was overwhelming. At first I thought it would

never come and when it did, the ecstasy was almost unbearable.

It felt so wonderful I couldn’t stand it. I thought I might go crazy

from the pleasure. I wanted to keep going, but had to stop, both

at the same time. And when it was over, I was exhausted and

totally satiated. Total bliss doesn’t define what I felt. It’s not even

close.”

Beyond driving your lover crazy with long-lasting ecstasy, an

additional benefit of G-Spot stimulation may be a reduction in

risk for cancer and diseases in the female prostate (also known as

Skene’s paraurethral glands and ducts). While the occurrence of

female prostate cancer is low and seldom fatal, any reduction of

risk is still beneficial. According to many alternative health

experts and Oriental practices, massaging the prostate can drain

toxins and stress. In the book, The Prostate Miracle, New Natural

Therapies That Can Save Your Lifei, the authors discuss similar

means for cleansing the male prostate gland and releasing toxins.

Although the female prostate is smaller than the male counterpart,

the two develop from the same embryonic tissue. Because of

their similarity, one might hypothesize that stimulation of the

female prostate and the corollary release of fluids and cleansing

could offer the same benefits as male prostate stimulation. This

topic of women’s health deserves future research.