Sexual Techniques to taking it Further

Sexual Techniques to taking it Further

Expand your sexual repertoire by using lubricants and vibrators. Even if a woman lubricates naturally, a bit of extra lubrication can make things extra fun. Add a vibrator to the mix, and you’ll discover why they’re a woman’s best friend.

Share your fantasies. Getting a woman to open up about her fantasies will give you a shortcut to pleasing her sexually. You may wish to try role-playing, spanking, using a blindfold, or light bondage. The key is to both be comfortable with the fantasy and stop if either party becomes uncomfortable.

Do some research. Pick up one of the many books out there on sexual techniques and positions. Personally, I like Tracey Cox’s Hot Sex: Hot to Do It, which includes informative advice for both men and women. Many lovers swear by the Karma Sutra. Don’t just stop with books. The 2004 film Kinsey about legendary sex researcher Alfred Kinsey (the father of sexology) opens up many issues about sexuality and culture that are important to consider.

This chapter has just been a starting point for thinking about sex. Once you understand more about how the female orgasm works, and the longer you’re with your partner, the more your orgasm accuracy will improve.

Remember: just keep communicating, learn from your partner, focus on pleasure, and you can’t go wrong!