Sexual Techniques with Oral Sex

Sexual Techniques with Oral Sex

If you can master oral sex, you’ll be a lover in high demand. Many women can only come through oral sex, and even a woman who won’t let you have sex with her may consent to having oral sex.

Here are some tips for better oral sex.

• Enjoy giving oral sex. Many women are sensitive about how they smell and taste down there. If you are clearly enjoying yourself and are willing to spend however long it takes, she’ll allow herself to relax and enjoy the sensations.

• Use the whole of your tongue, not just the tip. The more area of your tongue against her genitals, the more sensation she feels.

• Be indirect. Don’t just lick the clitoris directly. Too much direct stimulation can be painful. Instead, come at it from all angles, or lick around the base.

• Use long, slow, gentle strokes in a steady rhythm. Keep it smooth and steady as you alternate among up-and-down strokes, side-to-side strokes, and circles. Make sure you use lots of saliva to keep it wet.

• Use your hands to good advantage. The more areas you can stimulate, the better, so use your hands to stroke her other erogenous zones.

• Insert a finger into the vagina. Often, women will come easier with both vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Wait until she’s well lubricated, and insert a finger into the vagina. (Make sure that your finger is clean and fingernails well-trimmed.) Move your finger in a “come here” motion, two to three inches up, to see if you can find the tricky G-spot.

• Continue stimulation as she’s coming. Unlike men, women need stimulation up until the point where they’ve finished coming. If you stop too soon, she’ll be left on the edge but unable to topple over. However, once she’s come, her clitoris may be highly sensitive, and she may push your hand away