the G-Spot Exist

Beyond the intense sexual pleasure the G-Spot is able to produce,

new studies are investigating the G-Spot’s value in blocking pain

during childbirth. In an article titled Beyond the G-Spot: Recent

Research on Female Sexualityii which appeared in the January 1999

Issue of Psychiatric Annals, authors Whipple and Komisaruk

state: “. . . a series of studies has demonstrated that self-stimulation

of the anterior wall of the vagina in women produces a significant

elevation in pain thresholds. . .” and “we believe childbirth would

be more painful without this natural pain-blocking effect...”.

women were instructed to grade “Vaginal”, “Clitoral”, and “G-Spot” orgasms on a scale of 1 to 10

In one survey we conducted, women were instructed to grade

“Vaginal”, “Clitoral”, and “G-Spot” orgasms on a scale of 1 to 10

(with 10 being the “most pleasurable” and 1 being “least

pleasurable”). Of the respondents who achieved successful G-Spot

orgasms, the average rating was a “10” (One woman claimed it

was “off the chart”)! The average rated clitoral orgasms was an

“8” and vaginal orgasms ranked third in pleasure intensity with

a “6”.

The Dire Truth about Conventional Orgasms

While most men can go from “slightly-interested” to “fullejaculation”

and orgasm in an average of 3 to 4 minutes, orgasms

for women are often more elusive. On average, a women requires

15 minutes (or longer) of combined foreplay and stimulation

before orgasm is achieved. The reward: a clitoral or vaginal

orgasm lasting an average duration of 8 to 19 seconds.

In the early 1970’s, a detailed nationwide study showed that

nearly 12% of women never experienced any type of orgasm! The

same study showed that 16% could have an orgasm during intercourse

(with the addition of clitoral stimulation) and 19%

achieved a rare orgasm through intercourse alone. 

the big deal about G-Spot orgasms

If you’ve never seen or experienced a true G-Spot orgasm,

imagine for a moment, an orgasm that causes the whole vagina to

spasm violently, often contracting so tightly that it literally tries

to “force out” your finger or any object in the vagina. And imagine

that while these intense contractions are throbbing and pulsing

throughout the vagina, the vagina becomes very wet, often literally

ejaculating a stream or spurt of fluid with each contraction.

Imagine an orgasm that causes such intense ecstasy that even the

quietest and most controlled woman will yelp and buck and

thrash; one that makes normal “screamers” go dead silent—the

scream caught in her throat—a scream that if freed may wake all

the neighbors within a five block radius.

Sexual Techniques to taking it Further

Sexual Techniques to taking it Further

Expand your sexual repertoire by using lubricants and vibrators. Even if a woman lubricates naturally, a bit of extra lubrication can make things extra fun. Add a vibrator to the mix, and you’ll discover why they’re a woman’s best friend.

Share your fantasies. Getting a woman to open up about her fantasies will give you a shortcut to pleasing her sexually. You may wish to try role-playing, spanking, using a blindfold, or light bondage. The key is to both be comfortable with the fantasy and stop if either party becomes uncomfortable.

Sexual Techniques of the A-Spot

Sexual Techniques of the A-Spot

There’s another area only recently discovered (1996) called the “anterior fornex erogenous,” or A-spot for short. It’s located halfway between the G-spot and a woman’s cervix. Unlike the G-spot, it’s smooth, but you’ll have no doubt you’ve found it from her response.

According to sex expert Tracey Cox, the A-spot was discovered when researchers were searching for a cure for vaginal dryness. To their surprise, they found that stimulation of the A-spot resulted in an amazing feeling of being turned on for 95% of women. In fact, these women were then able to experience multiple orgasms, possibly due to the increased lubrication.

Sexual Techniques to Hit the G-Spot

Sexual Techniques to Hit the G-Spot

If you’ve got a slightly curved penis, you’re in luck, because biology has favored you to hit a woman’s fabled G-spot. The G-spot, or Grafenberg spot (named after the German gynecologist who first documented its existence), is located on the vaginal wall, a few inches up, towards the belly. It is the size of a pea, feels spongy, and swells as a woman becomes more aroused.

It is believed that the G-spot has a biological function as a trigger point during childbirth. The baby’s head pushes against this spot during childbirth and triggers the final contraction of delivery. However, when stimulated sexually, the G-spot causes a strong contraction of the vagina, resulting in a powerful orgasm and even, for some, female ejaculation.

Not all women are able to find theirs, but she’ll thank you for life if you point the way to hers! The best position for hitting the G-spot is either girl-on-top or doggie style.

Best Positions for Women in Sexual Techniques

Best Positions for Women in Sexual Techniques

 The single best position for women to have an orgasm, hands down, is the girl on top position. From that position, she can control the depth, angle, and speed of thrust. All you have to do is lie back and enjoy the action.

Make sure that whatever position you’re in offers opportunity for clitoral stimulation. Missionary often works as well for women as men, because her clitoris gets rubbed as you move on top of her, but maximize the potential of this position by putting a pillow underneath her buttocks to raise her up. If you’re in a position where the clitoris doesn’t get any stimulation, then make up for it by using your fingers

Sexual Techniques with Oral Sex

Sexual Techniques with Oral Sex

If you can master oral sex, you’ll be a lover in high demand. Many women can only come through oral sex, and even a woman who won’t let you have sex with her may consent to having oral sex.

Here are some tips for better oral sex.

• Enjoy giving oral sex. Many women are sensitive about how they smell and taste down there. If you are clearly enjoying yourself and are willing to spend however long it takes, she’ll allow herself to relax and enjoy the sensations.

Sexual Techniques with Fabulous Foreplay

Sexual Techniques with Fabulous Foreplay

I’ll teach you how to take advantage of what you now know about women’s orgasms to make sure that she comes every time. You’ll learn some fabulous foreplay techniques, which positions maximize her chance of coming, and the fabled A-spot that is guaranteed to give her an orgasm every time.

Barriers to Orgasm

Barriers to Orgasm

Sometimes, a woman just can’t come no matter how much she wants to. Orgasm is an unconscious biological response, which means that an active conscious mind can actually hinder her chances of coming. Distracting thoughts or worries can ruin the moment just as she’s about to come.

This is why it’s so important to make sure that a woman is completely relaxed mentally and physically—before having sex. Lingering tension from the day’s work can make her less likely to orgasm, as her mind will be full of concerns and all that she has to do the next day.

Help her release her tension before having sex by having a long, hot bath together, or turning on soothing music instead of the television. Keep distractions to a minimum. Talk about non-work-related topics and cuddle or stroke her hair.

What a Woman Wants In Sex Relations

What a Woman Wants In Sex Relations

Give her the sex that she wants, not the sex that you want. But what does she want? you might ask. Lucky for you, I have the answers.

• Anticipation.

For women, anticipation is a highly enjoyable sensation.

Many women prefer to hold off on sex and savor the anticipation so that when the time comes it’s perfect. Guys, on the other hand, are up for it any time, no prior warning necessary.

If you’re going to be the kind of lover that women swoon over, take your time. If you jump into bed straight off, you won’t capture her imagination.

Hold off for at least a few days so that you can build up the sexual tension and anticipation. Even if she wants it right now, be the one in control. Tell her that when you have sex the first time, it’s going to be done right. You’re not both going to be drunk or wake up the next morning not remembering what you did. You’re going to make love to her like no one else has ever done it before. Words straight out of a romance novel are guaranteed to make her melt at the knees.

How Women See Sex

How Women See Sex

Although both men and women engage in the same physical act, their perceptions of what is going on when they have sex are completely different. It’s as blaring as the difference between a Harlequin romance novel and hard-core porn. Men and women want different things from sex, and the best lovers know this and take advantage of it.

What Affects the Quality of an Orgasm

What Affects the Quality of an Orgasm

Let’s start out this chapter with a quiz. Which of the following affects the quality of the orgasm you experience?

1. Your partner

2. Your mood

3. How tired you are

4. Amount of foreplay

5. How many times you’ve come already

6. All of the above

If you answered, “All of the above,” you’d be right!

Six Different Types of Orgasms

Six Different Types of Orgasms

Let’s take a look at different “types” of orgasms. Not all sexologists will agree that orgasms should be divided into these categories, but I use them here because they seem to fit the common perception of orgasms.

A Woman’s Orgasms and full benefits of sex

A Woman’s Orgasms and full benefits of sex

To get the full benefits of sex, both partners must come. But how do you know when a woman has an orgasm? Is there more than one kind of female orgasm?

In this section, I’ll answer those questions and more.

The top Ten Benefits secrets of Orgasms

The top Ten Benefits secrets of Orgasms

When you consider the many health benefits of regular orgasms, you may come to the conclusion that sex is something that—quite simply—you can’t live without. Keep sex a priority, for both your sake and your partner’s. Don’t consider it a selfish pleasure; consider an essential part of her health and yours.

Regular orgasms will give you and your partner: